There Are Only 3 Ways to Attract What You Want

For tinnitus sufferers, attracting what you want may be difficult because of course the mind wants to focus on what it doesn’t want, the tinnitus. However, if you are to truly get what you really want in life and at the same time, get tinnitus off your mind, there is only three ways to do it successfully.

The answer however, is not in the doing, it’s “how” you do it. And, that will require three different behavioral and emotional attitudes. The first is “acceptance”. Being able to accept things as they are and not fight your mind’s need to control every situation is paramount to any successful life.

The problem is; the mind has been conditioned to judge, criticize and complain when things don’t go your way. You must stop the mind from doing that. Many people try to be right by fighting or resisting what they think is wrong. My question to you is; would you rather be right or would you rather have what you want? Any negative attachment that the mind has to any given outcome creates resistance. And, the more you resist, the more it will persist.

Being able to accept what is means that you have adopted acceptance. You have created what is called detachment. Once you have that, then you are able to take whatever comes without any negativity whatsoever.

Once you have adopted acceptance and detachment, it’s time to move on to a more effective way of getting what you want and that is to “enjoy” what it is that you do. Enjoyment is a much more powerful energy than acceptance.

The thing that you need to know about enjoyment is that you do not have to work at it. Choosing things that you love to do will automatically create enjoyment. It’s an intrinsic motivation or a motivation that comes from within. Whatever you love to do will have an inherent level of enjoyment and therefore that energy will draw situations, circumstances and people to you that are positive and will give you more of what you want.

The third way of doing anything successfully and the strongest energy that you can create is enthusiasm. Enthusiasm is when you combine the energy of enjoyment with a goal or purpose. Unfortunately for most people they have no idea what their purpose or goal in life is. And, if you are ever to adopt enthusiasm on a constant basis you will have to figure it out.

The best way that I know how to find your purpose is to ask yourself what it is you love to do and then attach a level of “how will this help others” to it. When you help others you automatically open the flood gates of everything that is good in life.

The rule is this; when you help others get what they want, you will have it in abundance. The very fact that you are trying to help instead of asking “what’s in it for you” implies purpose. Your life will become easy and whatever you fought against in the past will disappear. This goes for tinnitus as well.

I think the problem for most tinnitus sufferers is they can’t see past their own suffering. But, when you think about it, doesn’t suffering imply a level of what’s in it for me? You’re hoping for healing when what you really should be doing is helping others heal first. Now, as hard as that may seem for you at the moment it really is the fastest way to get what you want.

Unfortunately, many people never outgrow their limiting beliefs. And, for most people the limited belief of focusing on your problems so that you can fix them is totally against all known laws of the universe. You must flow with the universe and to do that you will need a purpose. Find it. You’ve been given a great life and you must repay in kind for the life you’ve been given by helping others to have great lives.

Learning to accept the things you may not like to do, enjoying what you love to do and the enthusiasm that comes from pursuing your life’s purpose will give you everything you’ve ever wanted. Don’t forget though, when you don’t get what you want, don’t dwell on it. Instead, shift your attention to acceptance and go do something you love that helps others.


Paul Tobey is a professional speaker who has recorded an amazing 2-part seminar entitled “Tinnitus Free Living.” Paul was invited to give this tinnitus seminar to the Canadian Hearing Society and it is available for instant download by clicking this tinnitus treatment link.